Free PDF · A 5-minute read · Australian-made
Free PDF · A 5-minute read · Australian-made
Not ready to have the conversation yourself?
You don't have to start at the kitchen table. Vera can listen to what's going on and help you figure out where things stand — it takes about 15 minutes.
60 seconds with Vera
The Put The Kettle On guide is five questions you can ask the person you care about, on a quiet afternoon, with nothing on the table but two cups and your attention. It isn't a checklist. It's a way to find out what they want — in their own words — before anyone else has to decide for them.
60-second explainer — landing here in Week 3
Before you sit down
Side by side is less confronting than face to face. The kettle helps too.
A pause isn't a problem. People often answer the real question after the second beat.
Not every word — just the one or two things you didn't know she felt that way about.
You can come back. The conversation is meant to be the start of something, not all of it.
When you're ready for more
The guide stands on its own. If you want company afterwards — to hold what you heard somewhere safe, or to ask Vera what to do next — both doors are open below. There's no order. Either one helps.
